Thursday, January 28, 2010
Wednesday, January 27, 2010
Tuesday, January 26, 2010
TMI Tuesday #223 - Masturbation Edition
1. When you masturbate, how long, typically, is your session and what do you think about (other than having an orgasm)?
It depends on any number of things, including where I'm at, whether I'm under any time restrictions, and how turned on I'm feeling to start with. But as some sort of average... I'd say maybe 10 min? What I'm thinking of varies too. Sometimes I will have been watching something, reading something, etc., and that will have put a particular scenario in my head. But often what I'm thinking about is that I'm looking forward to having a story to tell Frances. :-)
2. Have you ever been "caught" masturbating?
Never that I can think of, strangely. Frances has maybe walked in to find me getting a head start... But that was more of a planned thing. :-)
3. Have you ever masturbated in front of your computer? If 'yes' was it for your own purposes or for someone's viewing pleasure?
Of course I have! That's where all the good porn is. :-) And it's quite often just for my own entertainment, but also... Skype is a wonderful invention. :-)
4. Have you ever attended a group masturbation party? Same-sex or mixed?
I've never been invited, sadly... :-/
5. When masturbating, as you reach orgasm, do you continue to stimulate yourself without interruption, or do you stop and apply pressure until your spasms subside? Or?
Not sure I'm familiar with this 'stop and apply pressure' technique you speak of. Or maybe it's a girl thing? Sometimes I'll keep right on going. Sometimes I'll kinda let the first one build a little bit for a more kind of 'explosive' first shot. Which is handy for decorating. :-)
6. Have you ever video'ed yourself while masturbating (solo)? Where are they now?
Sure, I have. There's some on my phone, some on frances' phone (she's got a favorite or two), and if 'Susan' counts as 'alone'... Then there's at least one on this blog.
Bonus (as in optional): How often do you use the word "fuck" (or its derivatives) in casual conversation - frequently, occasionally, rarely, never
Depends on the audience, obviously. But in general, I think somewhat rarely enough that it tends to keep its impact.
-d.
Monday, January 25, 2010
200!
Hi everyone!
Our most recent post marks 200 posts since frances and I got started here about 15 months ago. And as I sit down to mark the occasion, I can't help but think how different our world was back then. That was before the others found us out... Before our time apart... Before all the sadness that's come our way in the past year. We've been through a lot in the time we've been with you, and we certainly thank you all for the love and support and understanding you've shown us. And for the sexy stuff too. ;-)
But enough of that. Let me take you back, to the dark distant fall of 2008. Something frances & I have always loved to do is share links to things that one of us finds online and finds sexy. And something that we discovered between the two of us around that time was Fleshbot's Sex Blog Roundup. And we both got hooked on these real stories, real people... Until finally, we realized, "Hey... WE'VE got stories. That'd be fun..." ;-)
And with one quick text, we were off...
"We have new email addresses... Yours is francesanddaniel@gmail.com. Mine is danielandfrances@gmail.com."
xo
-d.
Our most recent post marks 200 posts since frances and I got started here about 15 months ago. And as I sit down to mark the occasion, I can't help but think how different our world was back then. That was before the others found us out... Before our time apart... Before all the sadness that's come our way in the past year. We've been through a lot in the time we've been with you, and we certainly thank you all for the love and support and understanding you've shown us. And for the sexy stuff too. ;-)
But enough of that. Let me take you back, to the dark distant fall of 2008. Something frances & I have always loved to do is share links to things that one of us finds online and finds sexy. And something that we discovered between the two of us around that time was Fleshbot's Sex Blog Roundup. And we both got hooked on these real stories, real people... Until finally, we realized, "Hey... WE'VE got stories. That'd be fun..." ;-)
And with one quick text, we were off...
"We have new email addresses... Yours is francesanddaniel@gmail.com. Mine is danielandfrances@gmail.com."
xo
-d.
Friday, January 22, 2010
If you ever doubt, consult a random stranger.
"Do you have that other cash, babe?" Daniel inquired as we stood outside a Toronto club on a balmy June (2008) evening.
"Umm...yeah, sure," I responded handing over the colorful Canadian bills, so Daniel could pay the scalper to gain us entry to the Mod Club where one of Daniel's favorite musicians, Fish, was playing.
The show had already started as we found a place in the back of the crowded club, sandwiched between a small sattelite bar and the high top tables that remained on the outer upper level surrounding the people-packed 'dance' floor. We had perfect visibility, above the crowd and level with the stage. Daniel wrapped his arms around me from behind and we began to move to the music. He was so proud, sharing his love for Fish with me. Though I had never heard any of his music, I was eager to enjoy something so important to Daniel as well as revel in our first big adventure together. A few songs into it Daniel crossed the small space to the mini-bar behind us for libations. He returned with 2 of our regulars, cranberry and gin with lime. We finished them and he kept us hydrated as we kissed and danced and generally enjoyed our unhindered time together.
On one of his trips to the bar, I became acutely aware of the woman 'next' to us on the ground floor. (Our little platform was 2 steps up from where she was standing and dancing her little tush off.) I had caught her looking at us a few times and we had exchanged pleasant smiles here and there throughout the night. (I know you THINK you know where this story is going, but I promise, you're going to be surprised. I know *I* was.) I didn't pay her too much attention, aside from noticing her glances, her wild dancing, and sharing those couple acknowledging smiles.
After the concert I left Daniel to find the restroom. I was suitably tipsy by this point and having a wonderful night. I used the restroom and waited for my turn at the sink. As I washed my hands I heard a tentative voice at my back.
"Excuse me," it said and without looking I happily tried to make way at the sink. She kind of tapped me on the shoulder in order to better get my attention. Confused, I turned around to see the petite woman who had been dancing near to us.
"Look, I don't really know what your beliefs are or anything and I don't want to offend you, but I was watching you out there and well..."
She stumbled awkwardly trying to find the right words.
"I see angel wings around you." She finished with a bright smile.
"Umm...ok. Really? Thank you?" I replied unsure how to respond.
"It's just..you have a glow, this light around you. It's really beautiful," She continued.
I grew continuously happier with each subesequent phrase, becoming confident that she somehow felt the francesanddaniel vibe and she was affirming the appropriateness of our relationship.
"Wow, that is SO sweet." I beamed in all my tipsy glory. "Can I just..like..hug you?" She leaned into my embrace as if we were old friends.
I continued rambling, the words falling out quickly, "Without going too much into it, I've been really worried about, well..."it" and it's just so nice of you to say so..." (Obviously at this point I really wasn't making much sense, but she didn't seem concerned.)
"No really," she replied. "What ever path you are on, it's the right one."
Dumbfounded, I stumbled out of the bathroom with a grin plastered between both ears. I found Daniel at the main bar with shots lined up for both of us. I quickly pointed out the woman as she disappeared through the crowd and later told him of the conversation. He, like me, was beyond pleased and has since said that this experience just made the night for him.
We would love to know who she was and how she came to such a conclusion about us, but we know it's highly unlikely we will ever meet her again. When things get really tough I try to remember this night and how special it felt. I don't know how I feel about psychics and auras and all that mumbo-jumbo, but I know I was happy that night and it was all because of Daniel. Obviously someone noticed and I couldn't be happier that she took the time to mention it.
"Umm...yeah, sure," I responded handing over the colorful Canadian bills, so Daniel could pay the scalper to gain us entry to the Mod Club where one of Daniel's favorite musicians, Fish, was playing.
The show had already started as we found a place in the back of the crowded club, sandwiched between a small sattelite bar and the high top tables that remained on the outer upper level surrounding the people-packed 'dance' floor. We had perfect visibility, above the crowd and level with the stage. Daniel wrapped his arms around me from behind and we began to move to the music. He was so proud, sharing his love for Fish with me. Though I had never heard any of his music, I was eager to enjoy something so important to Daniel as well as revel in our first big adventure together. A few songs into it Daniel crossed the small space to the mini-bar behind us for libations. He returned with 2 of our regulars, cranberry and gin with lime. We finished them and he kept us hydrated as we kissed and danced and generally enjoyed our unhindered time together.
On one of his trips to the bar, I became acutely aware of the woman 'next' to us on the ground floor. (Our little platform was 2 steps up from where she was standing and dancing her little tush off.) I had caught her looking at us a few times and we had exchanged pleasant smiles here and there throughout the night. (I know you THINK you know where this story is going, but I promise, you're going to be surprised. I know *I* was.) I didn't pay her too much attention, aside from noticing her glances, her wild dancing, and sharing those couple acknowledging smiles.
After the concert I left Daniel to find the restroom. I was suitably tipsy by this point and having a wonderful night. I used the restroom and waited for my turn at the sink. As I washed my hands I heard a tentative voice at my back.
"Excuse me," it said and without looking I happily tried to make way at the sink. She kind of tapped me on the shoulder in order to better get my attention. Confused, I turned around to see the petite woman who had been dancing near to us.
"Look, I don't really know what your beliefs are or anything and I don't want to offend you, but I was watching you out there and well..."
She stumbled awkwardly trying to find the right words.
"I see angel wings around you." She finished with a bright smile.
"Umm...ok. Really? Thank you?" I replied unsure how to respond.
"It's just..you have a glow, this light around you. It's really beautiful," She continued.
I grew continuously happier with each subesequent phrase, becoming confident that she somehow felt the francesanddaniel vibe and she was affirming the appropriateness of our relationship.
"Wow, that is SO sweet." I beamed in all my tipsy glory. "Can I just..like..hug you?" She leaned into my embrace as if we were old friends.
I continued rambling, the words falling out quickly, "Without going too much into it, I've been really worried about, well..."it" and it's just so nice of you to say so..." (Obviously at this point I really wasn't making much sense, but she didn't seem concerned.)
"No really," she replied. "What ever path you are on, it's the right one."
Dumbfounded, I stumbled out of the bathroom with a grin plastered between both ears. I found Daniel at the main bar with shots lined up for both of us. I quickly pointed out the woman as she disappeared through the crowd and later told him of the conversation. He, like me, was beyond pleased and has since said that this experience just made the night for him.
We would love to know who she was and how she came to such a conclusion about us, but we know it's highly unlikely we will ever meet her again. When things get really tough I try to remember this night and how special it felt. I don't know how I feel about psychics and auras and all that mumbo-jumbo, but I know I was happy that night and it was all because of Daniel. Obviously someone noticed and I couldn't be happier that she took the time to mention it.
Thursday, January 21, 2010
HNT - Giving everyone a little chuckle. (At least I hope...)
We kinda have a thing for googly eyes. :-)
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
Let the blogs roll!
Hi all!
After a while of meaning to do so, I've made us a new and improved blogroll. It's over there on the right. There's some dear friends, some loyal visitors, some folks that get us all hot and bothered... :-)
Do us a favor and check them all out, would you...?
xo
-d.
After a while of meaning to do so, I've made us a new and improved blogroll. It's over there on the right. There's some dear friends, some loyal visitors, some folks that get us all hot and bothered... :-)
Do us a favor and check them all out, would you...?
xo
-d.
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
TMI Tuesday #222
1. Ideal amount of sex per week?
Ideal, as in 'real life' ideal, understanding that life gets in the way and every day is probably not a sustainable thing... I'd say 3-4 times a week.
2. Ever had an online affair?
Well, frances and I were that way for... a couple weeks I guess. Then we couldn't resist each other anymore. :-)
3. Are you a member of the mile high club?
Nope. Actually, I've never been on an airplane with anybody who could make that happen. I actually haven't flown anywhere since... like 1999? Wow. So, baby... Where we going?
4. Are you predjudice (sic) against any particular group of people?
People who can't spell prejudiced. ;-)
5. What constitutes bad sex?
Bad sex is... Dispassionate. Selfish. Focused more on the 'goal' than enjoying the experience.
Bonus (as in optional): Can females ejaculate?
Funny you should ask, frances and I have actually been talking about this very question this week. I used to be a bit of a skeptic. But I've heard enough real (i.e., non-pornstar) people talk and write about it lately, that I think I've come around. This post by Goddess Rhianna caught frances' eye the other day, which is what brought it up. Sounds like it might even be doable!
-d.
Monday, January 18, 2010
The Eagle has landed...
The parcel is secure. :-)
So, I called the hotel the next morning, and said essentially exactly what I said in the other post. The lady behind the desk (who incidentally was the same slightly-overly-helpful lady who had checked us in the morning before) took my information, and said they'd try to locate the bag and the manager would call me back.
To save us having to go back in and claim our naughty things, we'd thought of trying to have them just ship the bag to the P.O. Box. Seemed appropriate, as most of its contents were sent there in the first place... ;-) But unfortunately, no such luck. They could ship it, but only to a street address. My house was out. Frances' was too. We both entertained brief thoughts of having them sent to us at work, and then pretty strongly considered sending to frances at her mom & dad's house. But in the end, there were just too many things that could've gone wrong. We'd just have to suck it up and go back in there...
Frances ended up being the one who went back in to retrieve it (Thanks, baby!), and now it's safe and sound and packed up in a shoe box. They had to have peeked. Wouldn't you?
And if they did? Hmm, let's see, what was in there... The cuffs, the strap-on/corset, Susan, some lube, a little porn, and maybe an item or two we haven't talked about yet... I think that might be it. Shrug. Oh well. We don't have to go back there. ;-)
It's 11:00, do you know where your toys are?
xo
-d.
Results: A Little quiz...
For those of you waiting with bated breath for the answers to our quiz questions, wait no longer!
1. How old are francesdaniel?
Correct answer: 30-35
Frances is 31.
Daniel is 30.
2. Francesanddaniel met at Frances' wedding.
Correct answer: False
The couple met on the day of Frances' bridal shower.
3. What country did the couple escape to twice last year?
Correct Answer: Canada
The couple have visited both Montreal and Toronto (Story to come shortly)
4. Daniel kissed Frances First.
Correct Answer: True
Though they had been hello/goodbye cheek kissers since they met, Daniel gave Frances a peck on the lips to let her know he was interested. She wasn't sure if it was a fluke, so she went back and said goodbye again and got another intimate goodnight kiss.
5. Where did francesanddaniel first have sex?
Correct Answer: In the back of the Mrs.' car
6. How long have the couple been blogging?
Correct Answer: Since late 2008
7. What is the name of the girlfriend frances has a histroy with and the couple wants to add to their future?
Correct Answer: Ann
8. What sexual item seems to revolve around Daniel's birthday?
Correct Answer: Anal Play
Although francesanddaniel don't consider themselves 'special occassion' type people (ie. only do wild things sexually for birthdays,anniversaries, etc) The 2 main times they have had some major anal fun for Daniel have been on his birthday. Purely coincidence.
9. Our first HNT featured only Daniel.
Correct Answer: False
The first HNT featured Frances in rockin' shoes being orally pleased by Daniel. Mighty hot in our opinion.
10. Which is NOT a story Francesanddaniel have blogged about?
Correct Answer: The couple engaging in a threesome.
Though we do hope to add this to the list sometime. ;-) Please see the other stories here, here, and here.
BONUS
How many hotels have francesanddaniel been to in the 2 years they have been seeing each other? (We are counting locations NOT individual visits.)
Correct Answer: 16
Though this is not present anywhere on the blog we thought a few of you might make a good guess. ;-)
1. How old are francesdaniel?
Correct answer: 30-35
Frances is 31.
Daniel is 30.
2. Francesanddaniel met at Frances' wedding.
Correct answer: False
The couple met on the day of Frances' bridal shower.
3. What country did the couple escape to twice last year?
Correct Answer: Canada
The couple have visited both Montreal and Toronto (Story to come shortly)
4. Daniel kissed Frances First.
Correct Answer: True
Though they had been hello/goodbye cheek kissers since they met, Daniel gave Frances a peck on the lips to let her know he was interested. She wasn't sure if it was a fluke, so she went back and said goodbye again and got another intimate goodnight kiss.
5. Where did francesanddaniel first have sex?
Correct Answer: In the back of the Mrs.' car
6. How long have the couple been blogging?
Correct Answer: Since late 2008
7. What is the name of the girlfriend frances has a histroy with and the couple wants to add to their future?
Correct Answer: Ann
8. What sexual item seems to revolve around Daniel's birthday?
Correct Answer: Anal Play
Although francesanddaniel don't consider themselves 'special occassion' type people (ie. only do wild things sexually for birthdays,anniversaries, etc) The 2 main times they have had some major anal fun for Daniel have been on his birthday. Purely coincidence.
9. Our first HNT featured only Daniel.
Correct Answer: False
The first HNT featured Frances in rockin' shoes being orally pleased by Daniel. Mighty hot in our opinion.
10. Which is NOT a story Francesanddaniel have blogged about?
Correct Answer: The couple engaging in a threesome.
Though we do hope to add this to the list sometime. ;-) Please see the other stories here, here, and here.
BONUS
How many hotels have francesanddaniel been to in the 2 years they have been seeing each other? (We are counting locations NOT individual visits.)
Correct Answer: 16
Though this is not present anywhere on the blog we thought a few of you might make a good guess. ;-)
Thursday, January 14, 2010
Wednesday, January 13, 2010
Tuesday, January 12, 2010
TMI Tuesday #221 - Would You Rather (part 2)...
Would you rather.....
1. Have eyes that always smile or a voice that makes people calm?
Well... If my eyes ALWAYS smiled, how would you know if I was smiling or not? What if I was really pissed off, how would I show you with my always smiling eyes? I'd rather be zen and calming.
2. Have an affair and your partner catches you or your partner have an affair and you catch him/her?
Well, option 1 has happened. And it kinda sucked. The second option is surely no picnic either though...
3. Have better sex or more money?
I can't complain in the least about the sex. But there are always places we could go and things we could do with more money. :-)
4. Be able to read everyone’s mind all the time or always know the future?
I LOVE to be surprised. I refuse to even tell people what I want for Christmas, because I don't want to have any idea what to expect. So I don't think I'd want to always know the future.
5. Your partner have sex with someone else or fall in love with someone else?
If things go right, sex with someone else could very well happen with my blessing at some point. And us being who we are, there'd probably be some affection involved in that, but... Falling in love with someone else is a whole other story.
Bonus (as in optional): What one thing, big or small, would you change in your life if granted one wish by a lamp-bound genie? Why?
This answer's the same as it always is. You all know it by now.
Happy Tuesday...
-d.
Monday, January 11, 2010
...and we didn't even use them.
So, here's today's adventure in 'A Day in the Life of francesanddaniel'...
d 5:51 pm: Baby... :-/ I just realized i think we did something really dumb, and i'm not sure what to do about it...
d 6:11 pm: Unless you grabbed it... I think we might have left our bag of toys behind in the room. :-/
Yep. We did. Ugh.
So, obviously, frances and I found some time to be together today (which was wonderful, and more on that soon...). She worked late, and I took part of the day off. We finally managed to pry ourselves out of bed just in time to get where we needed to be, doing the ritual check before leaving our room behind... "Ok, keys... Phone... Wallet... Yeah, ok, I'm good."
Yeah, not so much. Forgot something. Lol. So, the plan is, tomorrow one of us will be making a slightly sheepish phone call... "Uh, hi, Best Western? Yeah, we checked out... early, and just realized we left a... 'bag' behind. No, no, nothing big. Just a small green shopping bag. Can you... uh... hold that for us? Thanks."
I kinda feel like an idiot. But it's also kinda funny. Stay tuned, we'll keep you posted... :-)
xo
-d.
d 5:51 pm: Baby... :-/ I just realized i think we did something really dumb, and i'm not sure what to do about it...
d 6:11 pm: Unless you grabbed it... I think we might have left our bag of toys behind in the room. :-/
Yep. We did. Ugh.
So, obviously, frances and I found some time to be together today (which was wonderful, and more on that soon...). She worked late, and I took part of the day off. We finally managed to pry ourselves out of bed just in time to get where we needed to be, doing the ritual check before leaving our room behind... "Ok, keys... Phone... Wallet... Yeah, ok, I'm good."
Yeah, not so much. Forgot something. Lol. So, the plan is, tomorrow one of us will be making a slightly sheepish phone call... "Uh, hi, Best Western? Yeah, we checked out... early, and just realized we left a... 'bag' behind. No, no, nothing big. Just a small green shopping bag. Can you... uh... hold that for us? Thanks."
I kinda feel like an idiot. But it's also kinda funny. Stay tuned, we'll keep you posted... :-)
xo
-d.
Thursday, January 7, 2010
Tuesday, January 5, 2010
TMI Tuesday #220- Would You Rather...
Would you rather.....
1. A relaxing vacation or an adventurous trip?
I see no reason why I can't have both. :-D On one hand, go go go and jumping off cliffs and whatever just sounds exhausting. But on the other hand, a week in a hammock sounds pretty boring. My favorite vacation EVER, which Frances wrote a bit about here, was the perfect combination of the two. New places to explore and have fun in, and then our own little 'neighborhood' to retreat to and feel at home and relaxed...
2. Get a perfect nights sleep or have amazing sex?
It depends on the day. Today...? I'm rested enough, i think i'll take the sex. :-D Yesterday I might've gone for sleep. Lol. Actually, this might be a bone of contention in the future francesanddaniel house...I can get by pretty adequately on, like, 4 or 5 hours. My frances needs her beauty rest. :-D So...some nights she'll choose the sleep for us. And that's ok.
3. Be intimate with the lights on or off?
Lights on, please. I wanna see. :-D
4. Your S/O be a terrible kisser who could always make you orgasm or an amazing kisser who could never make you orgasm?
I have a hard time imagining this terrible kisser who could magically get me off. Cause I'd think that would be such a turn-off that I wouldn't have a prayer. Lol. So I'll take the second one.
5. Date someone much younger or much older than you?
Well...MUCH younger than me would be illegal. And I've always been a bit old for my age. So I'm gonna go older. Give me 40 over 20 any day. :-D
Bonus (as in optional): Which reality show would you be good at? Why?
It's not a reality show, but I'm STILL hoping to get on 'Jeopardy.' I'm gonna kick ass. :-D
-d.
Monday, January 4, 2010
Review
"A review! We have a review!" Daniel texted me excitedly.
Thanks to our 'new' online friend Panserbjorne, Daniel and I feel praised, appreciated, and a bit pleased with ourselves. I swear he even brought us a few new readers. (Thank you!) I am humbled by his kind description of us. It seems he really gets francesanddaniel and we are really enjoying getting to know him. If you haven't checked his site out yet, PLEASE do. He really is an INCREDIBLY talented erotic writer. Just look here and here! Those are two of my favorites. Obviously I'm not as eloquent as he when writing a review (See his review of us here), so I'm just going to let his writing speak for itself. I really hope you'll take a moment to peruse his journal and become a follower.
Thanks again Panser! You made me blush all giddy and excited and it makes me smile every time I read it.
What are the rest of you waiting for!!?! Go, I said! Give Panser some love and come back straight away to say thank you to Mistress Frances for pointing you in the right direction. Go! Don't make me get out the whip! ;-)
Thanks to our 'new' online friend Panserbjorne, Daniel and I feel praised, appreciated, and a bit pleased with ourselves. I swear he even brought us a few new readers. (Thank you!) I am humbled by his kind description of us. It seems he really gets francesanddaniel and we are really enjoying getting to know him. If you haven't checked his site out yet, PLEASE do. He really is an INCREDIBLY talented erotic writer. Just look here and here! Those are two of my favorites. Obviously I'm not as eloquent as he when writing a review (See his review of us here), so I'm just going to let his writing speak for itself. I really hope you'll take a moment to peruse his journal and become a follower.
Thanks again Panser! You made me blush all giddy and excited and it makes me smile every time I read it.
What are the rest of you waiting for!!?! Go, I said! Give Panser some love and come back straight away to say thank you to Mistress Frances for pointing you in the right direction. Go! Don't make me get out the whip! ;-)
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